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Anonymous Asked: "I hope you don't mind me asking for advice, even if it's anonymously ^_^ anyways.. there's this guy and I like him. I'm pretty sure he likes me too and in fact I hear rumors that he's going to ask me to be his valentine .. but I'm kinda apprehensive in saying yes cos I know there's gonna be lots of talk. The thing is I'm thicker than him :/ and don't take this the wrong way but how do you deal with that with your boyfriend?"
Answer:

Wow, this is the first time I’ve received an advice question in a long time.. and it makes me happy! :) I don’t mind at all, I’m always down to give advice.

And don’t worry I don’t. I know, everyone knows that I’m thicker than my boyfriend. First of all, fuck what everyone else says. They’re not the one in the relationship. If you believe he likes you and he DOES end up asking you to be his valentine, then flaunt it. K well don’t flaunt it, stay humble. But what I mean is, is that it shouldn’t matter. He obviously chose you over anyone else yakno? If you decide not to, you’re only holding yourself back and submitting to what you think everybody else wants. Think about what you want. Don’t let your insecurities get the best of you, you’ll miss out on a lot.

Through it all, I do still have my insecurities. But shit, my boyfriend still loves me. He could care less if I gained more weight actually. Yeah people will talk, just let them be. Because truth is, you two are going to be the ones happy and that’s all that matters.

Posted: Wed February 1st, 2012 at 11:51pm
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